Voicemail, email, texting and tweeting!


There are many times when I yearn for the days when there was no voice mail, e-mail, texting, tweeting, or anything else that omitted being truly connected. I remember the phone ringing and there was no way to decipher who it was until you answered it. No one could leave a message if you weren’t home, which allowed you not to be concerned about calling them back. They simply knew you weren’t there and so they called you again. Telemarketers didn’t exist, so you never had to worry that a person selling a trip to the Antarctic, including sled dogs, would be calling you all hours of the day and night.

If you got correspondence it was in the form of a letter, which was handwritten by someone who actually knew how to use the english language. At some point, I fear letter writing will become obsolete, in lieu of texting which has become the new shorthand. So much of our history has been relayed in letters. Will historians fill textbooks with “so and so died March 10 2020 OMG!”. Will love letters cease to exist and simply be texts filled with emogis of hearts, and faces that look happy? The boxes filled with cards and letters from loved ones cannot be replaced with e-mails, which is here today and deleted tomorrow.

Words help to elicit emotions and in turn create memories. It is often difficult to decipher some e-mails as to their intent. When I write an e-mail my history turns it into a letter. My younger counterparts will often have one word as a response. “Yes”, or “okay”, is used most often. I can see those as a reply if I ask you if you got my e-mail, but if I’m inviting you over for dinner, wouldn’t it be nice if you said, “Yes, that would be lovely.” “Thank you so much”. When I have attempted to inquire as to why replying has to be so short and sweet, I am told it’s because their busy. The downsizing of “real” communication seems to be married to being busy.

When I’m hired to do a speaking engagement, I ask for contact numbers in case I have a problem in transit. They give me every imaginable way to get them, The only problem is that most often no one answers any of the numbers or e-mails. The voice mail comes on and informs me that they’re away at a conference; the very one I am supposed to talk at. I would have better luck with a homing pigeon or someone on horseback carrying a letter.

I know it’s not going to change. It will only get faster and faster and words will be replaced by more and more symbols. Until then I will continue to embrace words, their meaning and the joy they bring me.

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4 thoughts on “Voicemail, email, texting and tweeting!

  1. Hi Loretta, I’m going to try leaving my comment again. Here’s what I attempted to post a couple of days ago:

    “Oh, Loretta I couldn’t agree more. I still send handwritten notes to friends/family ever now and then, but I’m trying to do it more often. Remember the excitement of opening your mailbox (the REAL one!) in December and finding lots of Christmas cards? I still send mine out and don’t plan on stopping. I really dislike Facebook, but while writing my memoir and after it was published, I was told I “must” have all the social media possible to help my sales. I AM grateful for Facebook for helping me find lost friends, and old school mates finding me, but other than that….eh.
    I hope you call people today, they answer their phones, and you actually get to talk to them!”

  2. Beautifully, beautifully written. I’m so grateful that although my 30 year old daughter is in this electronic era, she still writes letters to her 90 year old grandma – from Calgary to California (and her grandma writes her back). I wonder if she knows what a gift it will be when all those letters belong to her one day. I have so many letters from the past (including letters to and from my Mom from the ’40s), and I treasure them all. They are a diary I would never have with emails and texts.

  3. Loretta you are spot on as usual! You can add to your essay that most schools are not even teaching script and that when young people “write” they print! I have love letters that my parents wrote to each other in beautiful script using a fountain pen back in the 1930s. I kept all of the letters and cards that my husband and I wrote to each other in the 60s and 70s. I can only hope that my children have something to put in a special box to keep for their children other than emails and text messages!

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